Your relationship doesn’t need more advice. It needs proof.

Couples fight about sex like it’s a mystery.

“It’s been a while”. “No it hasn’t”. “You never start”. “I always start”. Then you both go quiet and pretend the problem will die of boredom.

Here’s the deal: your brain is a liar under stress. It remembers vibes, not facts.

SexTracker (thesextracker.com) is built for couples who want to track intimacy without turning it into a spreadsheet of shame. You log what happened. You see what’s changing. You catch the drift early - before resentment sets up camp.

What it actually does (and why you’ll care)

SexTracker focuses on the hard part: consistency and honesty.

Track your intimacy in a simple, shared place so you stop debating “when” and start talking “why”.
Relationship stats and trends that make patterns obvious: dry spells, spikes, and what life events do to your connection.
Goals that don’t feel cheesy. Think: “twice a week”. “more initiating”. “try something new”. not “be more romantic”.

It gets worse if you ignore it.

When you don’t measure anything, every conversation turns into a trial. One partner becomes the prosecutor. The other becomes the defense. Nobody wins.

The real selling point: privacy + momentum

This category attracts creeps and data-hungry apps. So the bar is simple: be private, be respectful, and don’t guilt-trip users.

SexTracker positions itself as fun and private, made for two people who trust each other but still want boundaries. It’s not couples therapy in an app. It’s a mirror.

Who this is for

Long-term couples who feel the slow fade and want to reverse it.
New couples who want to build a rhythm before life bulldozes it.
Partners who struggle to talk about sex without turning it into a fight.

But there’s a catch: tracking won’t save you if you use it as ammo.

Use it to start better talks. Use it to notice effort. Use it to rebuild.

That’s the play.

Couples Intimacy Tracking